(Hi, StarAlchemist! Good to see you.
Bettina, Staralchemist is right about Pluto being pretty much done. You would have still been feeling it in August and during part of September, but that's about it since it's gone direct. Saturn in Virgo has been right there at the square to your Mars recently, and althugh it is moving past it, it is still causing you frustration and feelings of tension. You want to move forward, but feel like you can't. It will move out of the square soon, and return in the spring of 2010, when Uranus is also square from the other side. So the t-sqaure with Mars is not forming now; it forms next year. (Venus will enter Gemini to form a Grand Cross by May, but that is not particularly significant as it is a personal planet.)
Sometimes I give transits a two degree orb, but you have to be careful with that. As Staralchemist said, for your own purposes you should look to one degree, or one and a half degrees. However, I have found that if a planet has been in aspect, retrogrades back, and then eventually turns direct to form the aspect again, it often gets set off sooner because something has been previously set into motion.
Staralchemist's advice was good, Bettina, so keep it in mind next spring.