Thank you for your reply ; I have this aspect and I agree I can be a little OTT when meeting people , my confidence levels are high and I agree that this can instantly put people off me .. especially women .. they seem to find my personality ' too much ' . I have been told this on many occassions .. in fact some of my closest friends disliked me intensley when they first met me .
As for using Saturn influence a little wiser I wish I could ... I have Saturn in Aries in the 4th with no aspects to it
so there seems to be no holding me back