There is so much here that I don't know where to start. Maybe Bonita can help when she has time. She is always able to find things in charts that I have missed. I hope that some day you and Bonita will meet.
You were born with Uranus in Libra opposite your Sun in Aries, and also Moon in Aquarius, so Uranus (the planet of Change) has a strong influence on you. There are times when transits of Uranus can brong in sudden good fortune,and times when it can bring sudden endings.Uranus was conjunct your Venus and Jupiter conjunction around March through September of 2005, although it was strongest March through May and July through August, and maybe not quite as difficult June of 2005. It returned to conjunct your Venus again late December of 2005, very early 2006 (January) and also again in November of 2006. Perhaps when Uranus first aspected your Venus you fell in love, but when it aspected your Venus again, the relationship changed or ended. It is hard to say, because this happened so many times. And during these transits you may have lost some money or possessions, and also maybe a close female friend or relative.. ( This particular Uranus influence on your Venus may have been felt as early as May of 2004.)
All of this probably began many years before, when Saturn became conjunct your Moon in in Aquarius in 1992 and 1993, as Pluto in Scorpio began to affect the angles in your chart in 1993. Eventually Uranus was in Aquarius, transiting over your Moon, around 1998 and 1999. That may have started this trend where you have been displaced or had to leave home, or someone close to you left in some way. There were sudden losses and separations....Did you face war in your country in the way that Bonita did?
Saturn was opposite your Moon in Leo from October of 2005 through very early January of 2006, and again from late June of 2006 through most of July of 2006. Then when Saturn entered Virgo, it became close to opposite your Venus late 2007 ( through early 2008, and again became opposite by August of 2008. You may have lost a parent or close family member. You have had so many transits that indicate shakeups, moving, change in the home, loss of loved ones, etc., that I can't list them all. If I look at December of 2005 and January of 2006, I see that Saturn was opposite your Moon at the same time that Uranus was conjunct your Venus and Jupiter, and I feel that your home and family has not been the same since. You had to move on.
For the last four or five years, you have also been feeling the affect of Pluto moving back and forth through late Sagittarius and early Capricorn and opposing your Mars and Saturn in Gemini. This has been very, very hard. You feel as though what you had achieved in your life what destroyed, what you owned was ruined or taken away, and your own energy and physical body has been weakened. You have ahd physical problems, and maybe surgery. Some of the loss may even have affected children, and it has depressed you very much. You feel like you don't want to fight anymore. Soon you will be feeling the effects of Saturn and Uranus squaring your Mars and Saturn in Gemini, but you may really need to go through this stress to move on and end a difficult phase of your life.
However, I am really hoping that Jupiter moving into Pisces soon will help you to find some happiness. when it conjuncts your own Jupiter and Venus around March of 2010, and will eventually move to conjunct your Sun and Chiron conjunction opposite Uranus during an incredible lineup around late April and May of 2011, when you will see Mercury, Venus, Mars, and even the Moon also line up with Jupiter and Uranus in Aries. In early to mid May of that year you will see most of these planets except for Uranus conjuncting your Sun and Chiron, and it may be a tremendous opportunity to find fulfillment and healing. There may finally be a reward for all of your struggles.
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